Wednesday, August 12, 2015

GP

Last Sunday, I realized that I can still be attracted to guys that are normal. By normal I mean not the following scenarios:

1) admire men who are at their 30s, newly married or beginning to raise a family
2) felt attached with a teenager; coz I'm like 25 years old already. Even dating a 19 year old lad (last teen age) will feel awkward
3) fall in love with guys of same age bracket who are in a relationship

The past blog posts have said enough about heart breaks (mostly unconsciously) brought by the people described above and the heart aches due to the craziness, clinginess, and being over thinker of the girl who writes this.

Yesterday, I happened to had an unexpected encounter with someone as real as my high standard, ideal, close to non existent kind of man. Let's call him GP.

GP is single. This should have been on the top of the criteria. Always. All ways.
No.2 guy was single but he is way younger than me.

GP is of same age bracket.
No.3 guys are of my age bracket but they were already engage in a long term relationship.

GP is a lawyer. Surely he's a smart guy.
A guy from no.1 is my favorite lawyer, married recently, father of a new born baby.

Faith is always important to me. GP is a devoted catholic. He also sponsors outreach programs usually during his bday.
A guy from no.3 is also from a family of religious people.

GP is a foodie. He's been going around trying food chains and restaurants in the metro. I'm not much of an eater but I always enjoy discovering something new to visit and taste.

GP is a book worm. His choice of books are categorize from nationalism, life and happiness, and young adult fiction. We can tag along in book stores and book cafes.

Enumerating standard checklist that he was able to passed:
1) must graduate from a popular university
2) must have a professional license
3) must not be a jejemon, must type complete words on text message, must be grammatically aware.
4) must have a good sense of humor (but Rx is still my favorite when it comes to wittiness)
5) he wears glasses. So we can have the same bulag problem feels.
6) must be slightly smarter than me (slight lang, with conviction)
7) he has a nice first and last name

Bonus points are 1) He has a talent in photography 2) he is a good writer 3) he likes mango cake 4) he likes Sheeran.

Then I am giving minus point because I am not sure if he is athletic. Being basketball enthusiast is a deal for me. Also he have not met the gwapo level but he is pogi naman especially if with eyeglasses.

Oo na judgemental na ko. At least I have prove that my ideal standards can still be met. Wala kaming future ni Attorney but still my experiment has worked. Fudge!


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